How to tell if a guy is flirting with me

It's easy to tell if a guy is flirting with you.  

They hold your view for longer than comfortable, beyond awkward until it prompts a smile. Then once the smile has cracked they look away.

I think he is flirting, what should I do?

You must look away too! Straight away and don't look back for longer than you are really wanting to.  Its tempting to take a peek but you really must not - keep him keen too!  If you absolutely must check out if he is watching you use your peripheral vision.  Look straight ahead and mentally blank out what you see.  Focus your mind on your peripheral vision round the edges and watch his every move.

The biggest flirt trick is to be patient and put in the effort

Everything takes time - more time than you may think worth the effort.  Say to yourself is this man worth the effort of flirting, if he isn't then don't expect and don't be disappointed when nothing happens.  Time is the only difference between a brilliant flirt and someone who thinks no one wants to flirt with them.  it can take half the evening of distant flirting before 

There is someone for everyone to flirt with

I firmly believe this.  Confidence is essential and believing there is someone for you will ensure that you find them.  Keep looking and you will find.  You don't have to marry the first person you flirt with, likewise if you flirt with 100 that is OK too!  Just think of it as window shopping before making your considered purchase.

Flirting practice makes perfect 

As with any sport flirting needs practice.  You need to exercise your flirting muscles to keep them fit.  Try having a go at flirting on the bus or in a pub when out with your mates. Flirting does not need to lead to anything and most people are simply flattered by the attention. A smile and a nod hurts no one.

Happy Flirting

Flirticity

xx